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Now that the Superbowl is over, people can focus on what to do about the reality of football related head injuries and how to manage risks. If you are an adult athlete, what do you do given the possible economic consequences? If you are a parent of a boy who wants to play football, what do you do? And, football is mainly a boy’s sport. Girls have the greatest risk of concussion playing soccer. Which is part of why I think these canada goose black friday sale are the wrong questions.
Here are some that I think are more important and inclusive of those above: What is it about football culture that makes “playing through the pain” a norm? Why aren’t girls playing and why, when they do, is their athleticism made to seem rare and exceptional, when it is not? What makes coaches and parents continue a pee wee game in which five little boys get concussions? What kind of people Canada Goose Parka are interested in making a 9 year old girl feel special, only to have her grow up to realize that there is no place for her in the world that she loves as she gets older? Yes, the physical risks to players should be canada goose deals taken with the utmost seriousness, but the more important questions are about what lessons kids are learning about how to define themselves and to relate to one another.
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And, I’m not talking about about sexist Superbowl advertising. Football doesn’t have a problem with stereotypes. Football IS a problem with stereotypes. As wholeheartedly supportive as I am of critical campaigns like Notbuyingit, in terms of football, this is a good start, but it’s like about whether to use a blue or green umbrella to stand under Niagara Falls.
What lessons are kids learning in addition to the good ones?
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