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So you had an epidural and ended up having a c section? Was that a choice or was it because of medical necessity or? It amazing you healed so quickly, I rather not get one if possible but if I do have to, I like to give myself the best chance of a speedy recovery so I can actually be with my baby.
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I canada goose outlet authentic kind of. disagree, I guess? I pretty thoroughly opposed to this societal idea that you have to go in to work and can afford to take time off and stuff. I about to go into my final year of law school actually, and from my limited experience, there always another lawyer who can replace you unless you really top shit. Plus, I mean, I have no plans on being a barrister, so I wouldn exactly be going to Court or anything like that. I really really do commend you for pushing through, I honestly think that really tough, but I also feel like you really shouldn have to! Luckily most workplaces I looked at doing internships / grad routes etc with are very progressive and specifically allow time off for periods. But I mean, in any case, periods aren the same as birth. Birth happens once and then the real fun of having a screaming baby begins lmao.
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